How to behave on a first date?
Posted On 03/21/2020
The first date is
always a pleasant excitement, and sometimes nerves and tension. Because of
this, a person can take unnatural poses, and come up with topics for
conversation to fill the silence. How to behave on a first date? Here are some
Have a good rest
before a crucial day
If you come to a
romantic meeting sleepy or after intense working negotiations, you will not be
able to focus on pleasant moments. As a result, tension will arise. Get enough
sleep, eat something, if you are not planning a visit to a restaurant, and take
a shower. That is why it is not recommended to make appointments immediately after
work: it is better to go home to have time to prepare.
Think over several
embarrassing silence, you can think through several interesting topics for
conversation in advance and even remember a couple of jokes. Let the
conversation be easy and do not immediately begin to come up with a new topic
after the discussed one. Make sure that your interlocutor takes part in the
conversation and he is active.
Put on comfortable
naturalness of a date spoils due to the fact that you are in uncomfortable or
inappropriate clothing (especially for girls in long evening dresses and wearing
high heels). If you are planning a date in a park or an ordinary movie theater,
it is enough to wear comfortable sneakers.
Do not drink
The main mistake
of insecure people is to try to feel confident with the help of drinks. As a
rule, it does not help; moreover, the smell can push away another person. If
you are going to a restaurant, it is enough to drink no more than one glass of
wine to relax and feel more confident.
Tell stories from
If the topics of
conversation are exhausted, tell us about yourself, for example, you can recall
a funny story from your childhood or student life. It will always be
interesting to another person to listen to you, you will feel more relaxed, and
moreover, you do not need to look for topics for conversation. However, do not
be too frank and tell something personal or not too pleasant.
naturally on a first date is really important. If everything goes the right
way, then the second date will take place in a relaxed atmosphere, and you will